I never thought I’d fall out with so many people in life. But as I grew older, I started realizing it’s not about quantity but quality. People pretend well I tell you what. People swear they’d never do you wrong and will even swear on their lives but when it comes down to it they’d stab you in your back and smile in your face as long as the outcome is beneficial for them.
Luckily, thanks to my education and expanding wisdom (which came from growing up at a young age and experience I went through), I’m realizing that integrity is fundamentally important. This is also true when it comes to analyzing the validity of friendships if you feel you’ve been wronged.
Falling out of friendships or relationships with people who were previously good friends could feel like getting stabbed with a million little needle pricks of gloom and unrest. But it’s a bittersweet part of life that’s necessary in everyone’s individual development.
Also there are things that we never want to let go of or people we never want to leave behind. But have to keep in mind that letting go isn’t the end of the world, it’s the beginning of a new life